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Re-Writing Your Story
Stories are central to everyone’s life. Have you ever noticed that when you ask different people to describe the same event, their versions come out slightly differently from how you’d tell it yourself? In the same way, we all hold stories about ourselves — stories about who we are, what we’ve been through, and what we believe is possible. Sometimes these stories lift us up and help us recognise our strengths. Other times, they become limiting narratives that keep us feeling
Stephen Pate
Nov 182 min read


What to Expect in Your First Counselling or Psychotherapy Session
Starting therapy can feel like a big step. Many people new to counselling or psychotherapy aren’t quite sure what to expect, or worry about what they’ll say in their first session. At Peninsula MindCare, based in the heart of Mornington on the Mornington Peninsula, our goal is to make that first appointment as comfortable and down-to-earth as possible whether it’s in-room, via telehealth, or outdoors through walk-and-talk therapy along the foreshore or Mornington Park. In thi
Stephen Pate
Oct 283 min read


Managing Anxiety: Your Guide to Finding Balance
Anxiety is something many of us experience at various points in our lives. While it can be a normal response to stressful situations—like an upcoming test, an important speech, or a significant life event—for some, it becomes continuous and overwhelming. This persistent anxiety can negatively impact daily routines, relationships, and work. Learning to manage anxiety with simple, practical strategies can make a big difference. For those who continue to struggle, counselling pr
Stephen Pate
Sep 253 min read


Discovering the Benefits of Walk and Talk Therapy in Mornington
Modern therapy today spans across many mediums, depending on client preference and comfort. Therapy can take various forms, including: Traditional face-to-face counselling in a safe, confidential space. Telehealth sessions across Zoom or over the phone, allowing support from anywhere in Australia. Text-based or messaging dialogue for clients who prefer written reflection. Walk and Talk Therapy (Nature Therapy) — taking the therapeutic process outdoors. What is Walk and Ta
Stephen Pate
Sep 93 min read


Navigating Relationship Breakdowns: Finding Support and Healing
Understanding the Impact of Relationship Breakdowns This week in the clinic, I’ve had several conversations with clients navigating relationship breakdown, divorce, and separation. Sadly, these experiences are common in Australia. Around 30% of marriages end in divorce, and the median length of marriage before separation is 13 years. This often coincides with the years of raising children, when the focus shifts to parenting, and the relationship itself may be less prioritized
Stephen Pate
Aug 243 min read


Creating Space for Your Teen’s Emotions
Creating Space for Your Teen’s Emotions Working with teenagers can be both challenging and deeply rewarding. Recently in my clinic, I’ve...
Stephen Pate
Aug 144 min read


Wintering Well: Men’s Mental Health, Counselling, and the Wisdom of Chinese Medicine
By Stephen Pate – Psychotherapist/Chinese Medicine Practitioner After a summer and autumn that stretched well into May, Melbourne has...
Stephen Pate
Aug 123 min read
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